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I was seeing someone for a couple of months and started walking away. The physical chemistry between us was off the charts and had Sex on the third date (and many times after that), I now regret, as it may have derailed any chance of a real relationship with him. Also I know he has been dating other people. He found his mother, who is very close, has breast cancer and will undergo surgery next week and radiation treatments after that. He had already begun to pull away when he shared this with me. I want to send a brief note of the forthcoming weeks letting you know that your family are in my thoughts and prayers since I went through a similar experience in my own family for 3 years. Is this a bad idea? I know that usually if a person turns away the last thing you should do is get there, but this is unique and I limit my comments to your current situation family, nothing about missing him, etc. ..

Send the note. Keep it friendly, as suggested here. Do not miss anything heavier or the like. If he responds to stay calm. A lot of us men can not handle more than one big emotional issue at a time and the thought of losing her mother is enormous. He was away before, so it is not all that happens here. Be careful.

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